7 Ways To Keep Sex Life Active In Your Long Term Relationship

So, Valentines Day is just around the corner. But just incase it is no longer the “I can’t wait to tear your clothes off phase” and instead has turned into a chaste goodnight kiss, here are a few ways you can add some sexy spice to your long term relationship! 

man kissing a woman on the forehead near the breakfast table in the morning

Goooooood morning sex 

Exercising and a huge cup of coffee might put you in a good mood in the morning, but have you tried orgasms? Initiate a morning rendezvous in between the sheets with your partner, especially before running off to balance your chores and your work from schedule. In fact, why limit to the bed? Take it to the kitchen or even the shower. 

Fantasy can be fantastic 

Don’t lie, we know you have imagined how it might be if you were in the vicinity of or under Christian Grey. Now, he might be a fictional character, but that shouldn’t stop you from role playing your fantasies. Dressing up as each other’s fantasies, no matter what they are, can really build up the tension and lead to an extremely satisfying climax. 

a couple spending romantic time together with candles and lights all around the room

Wine and moan 

Just because you have already done the dating bit or are not going out for health reasons (ugghh Corona), doesn’t mean you can’t date again. Cook a fancy meal, light some scented candles, set the mood at the dining table and explore each other once more, physically and emotionally. 

It’s getting hot in here 

You have anyway watched porn or read a good erotica when you were feeling, um, a bit flustered. Instead of hiding it, why not explore the world of sensual voyeurism together? Watching porn with your partner can act as a foreplay where you see the other person get and bothered and well you know what comes next. 

Toy errr story 

Sex and sensuality is more than just your naked bodies intertwined with each other. It is about knowing what pleasures the other person. If you are a couple in a long-term long-distance relationship, you can always get dirty on screen. Buy sex toys that you might be comfortable with and watch each other pleasure oneself while getting your moments of bliss. 

I am on the menu 

As bad as it sounds, sex can sometimes get really predictable for couples in long-term relationships. But we are here to keep your sex life as hot as you can be. All you need to do is make a sex menu, which is sort of like foreplay until the main course (wink wink). This menu will list down the things that you consider kinky! 

So whatcha waiting for sister? Go make your Boo drool and thank us later <3

The High-Heeled Girl 

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